A gender reveal party idea was originally started in America back in 2008, by a lady called Jenna Myers Karvundis. She originally came up with the idea because she felt her husband’s family were not as excited as they should be, so she decided to gee them up with a gender reveal party.
Since then expectant parents to be, have tried to come up with increasingly creative ideas to reveal the gender of their unborn baby to close friends and family.
Some of the ideas used are Cupcakes filled with pink or blue icing, Piñatas filled with blue or pink confetti, balloons filled with pink or blue powder so when popped fill the air with the colour, also available are scratch cards ready for friends and family to reveal the pink or blue colour underneath.
There are lots of ideas people will come up with for the gender reveal, the more original the better. You can ask for a sealed envelope with the baby’s gender reveal in so you can take it straight to the bakery and ask for the coloured icing (whichever it may be) to be filled in the middle without even you knowing! This will then be cut at the gender reveal party so it is a surprise for everyone.
Maybe this is just another thing that an expectant parent may be “expected” to do, so many people ask a close friend or family member to arrange, sometimes the last thing you want as a pregnant woman is more pressure put on you and feels the need to arrange a gender reveal party!
If you do not want a gender reveal party do not feel the need to have one, one families gender reveal party went wrong: A couple in Iowa set up a metal cylinder to a stand, packed it full of coloured powder and gun powder and detonated it. They used explosives in the hope for a big bang but unfortunately, the device exploded like a pipe bomb, and it killed a family member who was standing close by.
So if you are thinking of having a gender reveal party, be careful, think smart and most of all make sure it is safe for you and everyone around.
Some people may still like the surprise of having the gender reveal at birth, some are superstitious and would rather not know until the day and others are simply happy that they are having a baby and do not care whether it is a boy or girl as long as it is healthy. Everyone is different so just do what feels right to you do not let anybody pressure you into having a gender reveal party if you do not want one!